(Updated 08/07/2014) I think an update has been long overdue. Let me start by saying I am not here for cyber sex and I am terrible at cyber sex. I don't think I have the imagination to envision it to the point of being able to make it pleasurable for everyone. So people might ask, well then why am I here.. what I do enjoy is talking with other women and select couples, to share my experiences with them and have them share their experiences with me. I want to have my mind exposed to new ideas and new things to try. I am looking to chat and connect with a per who I can be open and honest with. Let it also be said that I am bi-curious, .. well I am looking to experience being intimate with another woman. I have had a little first hand experience, but I would really like more. In addition to being bi-curious, I am also very interested in voyeurism and would love an opportunity to chat with other woman who share this interest...and maybe a little interest in exhibitionism as well. So far I have said a lot about why I am here but not much about myself. Well I am 64 years young and I like to live in the delusion that I am still in pretty good shape, although gravity has not been a kind friend to what little I have. I (think I) have a great sense of humour, I am out going, and am laid back. I was married for 37 years with 2 lovely s before my husband lost his battle to cancer so I do understand what a long term relationship entails and the commitments you have to make. Having my eyes opened to my sexuality in the last few years, I can clearly see now that my marriage was what I would call very conservative, with no sexual exploration or experimentation. For the past few years I have been involved in a safe and loving relationship with a younger man and it has been a wonderful eye opening experience. It provides me with a safe discreet environment that allows me to explore and experiment with someone who genuinely cares about me. Having come so far I can't help but wonder what else is out there and I am looking to talk with other women who share the same curiosities.

My Ideal Person No men, nooo men.. NO MEN...not sure how else to be clear about this, because men don't seem to understand. I am currently in a relationship with a wonderful lover and am not looking to replace him, or share my time with another man...yes you might be older or younger or have a larger penis, but I do not have an intimate connection to you so I am not interested.

What I am looking for is another woman or a select couple who are interested in talking and sharing life experiences. I think my preference would be someone closer to my own age for a physical face to face meeting, but I would love to talk with all types and ages of women, whether they be lesbians, bi-curious, or straight. Some of the most interesting conversations I have had on this site have been with straight women who were just open and willing to talk.

As I see it, I have 37 years of playing it safe under my belt so to speak and I only have God knows how much time left on this earth, so I have to make the rest of what I have count. Hopefully if you have read this far maybe we have an interest in common that we can chat about... looking forward to hearing from you soon.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, These are the ones I have lived out

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I guess I am not as interested in having sex with someone
as I am in making love to someone. I feel I need to have an emotional
connection to someone before I can feel comfortable being
with them. SO to answer the question, I can't think
of any celebrity as I don't really know any personally
that I would feel comfortable to be with.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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