We are a happy, stable, successful couple. Our sex life had become routine over the last few years and we talked about swinging as a fantasy for a long time. We've made the leap recently and haven't looked back since. The only part we find difficult is free time to go out, so spontaneity takes a bit of planning these days :) We are confident and keen about sorting out compatibility quickly. We are very polite and not pushy, but have worked out there isn't much point playing email ping pong, or chatting to couples if we don't have much in common. We hope this sounds time efficient, and not unfriendly. We happily exchange email, face pictures, and phone calls, usually if we have a free night out coming up... just to make sure we're going to meet real people who turn up, with a pretty good chance of a successful meet. On the night, we're happy to meet in a bar or wherever, drinks, conversation. Then play if all 4 are happy. We're well educated, and live on the north side of Sydney. Average builds, normal body shapes. We require discretion. We have played but still consider ourselves new. We don't identify with being in the 'lifestyle' (yet, haha) but it feels like something we do when we take a night off from being normal busy people with jobs and a family. But we're also very happy to meet with couples who have more experience than us. So drop us a line if we sound like fun. Even if we don't have a free date coming up, we would love to know you're on the radar. Then it might be us who contacts you when we have a night out coming up. We have enjoyed discovering that body types and physical compatibility are important, but chemistry, confidence and conversation are more important in the couples we meet.

My Ideal Person Another couple with a similar outlook. We don't have to explain our planning and free time issues, because you have them too.

Swinging isn't a part of your core identity, but it is an awesome amount of fun on those special nights when you both go out for some adults-only fun as a couple.

You might have nerves, or be quite experienced, but you have no hang ups and you're both into doing this together. You are honest and straight to the point in your dealings with us.

You want to find real friendship, even if it is confined inside a special night out once in a while with your new friends. And you both really get off on seeing your partner with another, and enjoying someone new yourself. Threesomes, foursomes, even better.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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