Interests and desires change and evolve with time - ones sexuality no exception. The raw desires and needs of the "earlier years" give way to a far more in depth understanding of ones sexuality - what you are, what you desire, what one enjoys.... I have an interest in communicating, and if the chemistry should arise, meeting with those whom have come to the stage that they are open and understanding of their sexuality. I do prefer those that are confident, intelligent and very aware of their sexuality. Naturally I tend to take the lead in everyday life, which leads me to generally being the dominant one sexually. Whilst it is not a prerequisite by any means, those, whom beneath their normal appearance, tend to be of a submissive nature, I can relate to. You will understand that the mental side of your sexuality, your mind is of huge importance... It is not so much how you look---- But how you portray yourself.... Not what you where... But how you wear it... Not what you say... But how you say it.... I lead a busy outdoor life, a wide range of interests and enjoy communicating with others, meeting new people of all interests. If we click erotically, then there can be much to enjoy. Whilst I am not looking for a relationship, some report makes any intimacy so much more enjoyable....

My Ideal Person An attractive (in mind and body) adventurous and sensuous lady/couple - You could be any age, But mature in outlook and your understanding of things sexual and erotic - you take pride in your appearance, are friendly and intelligent.....
At ease with your sexuality, you have a desire to understand and explore eroticism and all it involves....

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Warm summers night beside a pool , underwater light on
, warm musky oil being spread over a soft curvy female body
just waiting to have all her senses aroused, the water sparkling,
hands roaming and touching---------

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley, Open fire

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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