Looking for that special woman, with whom I can enjoy my post-coital spooning and think I am glad to be here. Not looking for anything life changing but definitely life enhancing. Just want some intimacy (more than just physical) with a like-minded woman, just some discreet intimacy on a regular basis with some conversation cuddling thrown in for good measure, I enjoy good foreplay giving and taking to get me in the mood. I would prefer to be with one person, who I can enjoy my post-coital spooning and conversation with, not looking for ons, though... On the whole I am quite simple and not interested in juggleing multiple people. Ideally you will also be married, or have your own responsibilities, or happy with your own state of play, or see me as a stepping stone on life's journey to better things. I understand I am not for everyone but that is fine as not everyone is for me. I enjoy good flirting, banter and the occasional debate, but I enjoy silence as well. I am very much my own man and am not easily swayed from my own work and purpose. I do have a spiritual side being a Christian and know I'm a sinner needing redemption every day, so it keeps me humble. Being a data manager I am quite logical, but that doesn't mean I have no emotional intelligence and I will want to be there for you as much as I will expect you to be there for me, especially as my marriage has taken an unexpected turn during lockdown forcing me on here for things I am not getting at home. If I'm too honest for your liking move on! Send me a message, I won't think any less of you, and I will respond.

My Ideal Person You, until I say different.