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Weird pretty much sums up my morning so far
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Weird pretty much sums up my morning so far Well this is weird. I think it's karma on some levels from something I posted yesterday  I went for yoga this morning and I had to go someplace different from my usual one cos the person teaching is out of town. Ive been seeing this poster for a place closer to town so I thought this morning I'd give them a try. I got there about 10mins before class was scheduled to start. I filled out the forms, paid for a class and picked my spot in the studio. I was the third person in class but the place started filling out right when it was about to begin.There was an older guy, about 45 degrees in front of me to my right, who I found out very quickly, is one of those guys who don't wear underwear under his shorts. Well either that or he had on some really, really loose ones on today Every single sun salute we did today, when he steps his leg forward Im greeted with two low-hanging prunes. LOL. It doesn't bother me that much, cos its just balls right? But it still makes me chuckle a little Fortunately all the sun salutes were in the beginning of class. HehehAlso, when I left, I walked past a guy who was working there (he had on a uniform, which was a t-shirt with the studio name on it) who said to me, "hey, you have nice body". What a weird comment. Right? He caught me off guard, so I kinda thanked him, cos that seems appropriate for me to say. But really? If it was a compliment, then I'm grateful. But still, what a weird thing to say to someone.... Speaking of weird thing, the boyfriend is resigned to us not going anywhere. So instead, he's coming over here again. I'm still exploring what we can do here in terms of nudity, but he's requested that we go cycling. If not nude, then he'd like me in tiny shorts. Like that's his thing now. I've always wondered how people can get so specific when it comes to preferences. I wouldn't even call it fetish. Right? But....really, cycling in booty shorts? Oh! And I'm trying really hard not to at least appear distracted cos I'm actually on a video call now. I've always laughed at the husband when I see him taking video calls in his shirt and tie tucked into his shorts and staying seated the whole time. How ironic it is that Im having to do that now I'm just glad the husband isn't around now cos he'd be giving me hell too LOL. SO yeah, white shirt, blazer tucked into shorts. I DID think about not even putting shorts on but I really need something to tuck my shirt into
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It also just occurred to me, that this is only one of the few times I'm dressed at home. Hmm...feels....weird...
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Karma indeed, but poor form on his part. They are are the most appealing of body parts to have dangled in front of you 
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Karma indeed, but poor form on his part. They are are the most appealing of body parts to have dangled in front of you
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If it's OK for a woman to go out knickerless, why not a guy? Personally, I am selective about the circumstances when anybody can see me naked, but there are areas in Vienna by the river where people do go about without a stitch on at certain times of the year. Live and let live.
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Low hanging prunes...I love it.
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"greeted with two low-hanging prunes" - that's the last time I'm having them with my breakfast porridge.  amp; 
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You think? Think I may be a little more mortified if I saw his anus. But yeah, his shorts were that loose.
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Dont know about the rules of dress in your gym, but in any I have gone to, if any staff or other customers had seen what you saw, he would have been banned from the gym. Not cool at all. That said, if was a woman who was pantiless, in loose shorts and got into a position where she showed her ALL to others, it is likely no one would have reported her, nor would the staff complained either. Same would apply to a 'wardrobe maifunction". As to your BF wanting you to bike in booty shorts, umm, did he ride behind you, or were other guys biking behind you? He may have wanted to see more, it is a popular image these days for women on bikes or motorcycles, but he could have been setting you up for buddies to watch you also. Just sayin'
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Your reaction to the "low-hanging prunes" is related to my specific attitude toward exhibitionism. For me, the turn-on of getting naked is the possibility that women will enjoy the view. In a setting like the voyeurism and exhibitionism room at the one sex party my wife and I have attended, it was pretty much a given that anyone who was watching wanted to see what they saw. Maybe the thrill was seeing my wife enjoying it while I was giving her oral, or seeing her pleasure during the intercourse. Maybe it was seeing me naked and getting busy with her. But even if they weren't enjoying it, they at least weren't going to find it inappropriate to the setting. On the other hand, if we were to get busy in a city park, there's a good chance that some of the people who might see it would be annoyed, shocked, or motivated to call police -- none of which are reactions that are consistent with what I find exciting about being watched. About the guy who praised your body, based on your profile pictures, I would agree. But given your reaction as expressed here, he was out of line to have said so. From a friend trying to reassure you when you're feeling down, a sex partner offering a compliment to fit the mood, or a strange guy at the gym in response to a question, it would be OK. But from a stranger unsolicited, no, not appropriate. Even if it felt good (such as if your reaction had been, "This really great-looking young guy who I never would have thought would notice someone like me said I have a nice body!"), it still would have been inappropriate, because you didn't ask him his opinion. Boyfriend wants to see you in short-shorts while biking? That's a different story; for him, it's reasonable to make a request for something that he might find arousing, as long as he's just telling you something he might like, without any pressure for you to indulge him. And I understand his interest; even if he has seen you in various other states of dress and undress, seeing you in a way that he hasn't seen you before might be a new pleasure for him, as long as it's no big deal for you.
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